tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-878914472051909043.post2058317954004611810..comments2024-01-12T12:39:47.241-08:00Comments on The Christian Monist: A Non-superstitious View of Bad Events.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-878914472051909043.post-20837490408414063292009-07-31T13:25:29.528-07:002009-07-31T13:25:29.528-07:00Typo . .. "God had done it"Typo . .. "God had done it"MJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09240462070445948163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-878914472051909043.post-78738266497719787012009-07-31T13:24:12.548-07:002009-07-31T13:24:12.548-07:00I've shared before the worst example was when ...I've shared before the worst example was when a little boy in our church was accidentally run over by his dad's riding lawn mower and his little head sliced to bits. Then everyone had to find some good purpose in this, that done it to teach us something. If you were a parent and believed that God had orchestrated such horrible events, how could you go on loving and trusting that God?<br /><br />Thanks for your prayers for Bryan and Renee, Don.<br /><br />A in M, don't you hate it when you try to live your life by signs? There was a rainbow so I should do this. Or this door was open and that door was closed. My thinking now? I'm not sure if I have it figured out. I mean, I think God directs us through absolutely closed doors (where that certain choice is impossible to make). Of course aboiding blantant sin should be a guide. But beyond that, I think God gives us Titanic freedom in the choices we make. Should we have 1 child or 10? Unless we are sterile (thus an absolutely closed door) we have choice . . . and none of them are going to disappoint God.<br /><br />Of course, we all know that the sign thing, or open door thing is used by all of us for manipulative purposes . . . to manipulate ourselves, but mostly others.<br /><br />I really miss the days that I could tell my wife to do something (which I really wanted her to, manipulation in other words) and use, "God wants you to do this" as an excuse. <br /><br />I guess that is one reason that I feel irritated when I see other Christians trying to manipulate me.<br /><br />NATOL aka Bryan, sorry. That was the only photo of you and Renee together. Love Dad.<br /><br />Ah . . . love to the others too. :>)MJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09240462070445948163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-878914472051909043.post-78191617760086246332009-07-31T12:14:40.273-07:002009-07-31T12:14:40.273-07:00That's an old picture.
At times I wish I ha...That's an old picture. <br /><br />At times I wish I had some emotional opium. It might help with the discouragement.<br /><br /> Someone from church the other day, when she heard about me being laid off, said something to the extent of "it's all in God's timing, even if you don't understand it." I felt like replying that "if God wanted me to loose my job with a son on the way, then God has really s####y timing, and he seems like a jerk." But I don't blame God. <br /><br />I don't really blame anyone. I don't blame myself--I know I did good work. I don't even blame my boss or the board of directors--they put a lot into the company (time and money) and need to do what they think is best for it. I knew I took a risk working for a small startup company, I thought the risk was worth it, and I would make the same choice again today. Not that it makes loosing the job any easier (financially or emotionally), but I don't really have any regrets or blame.NOTALhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18023642993271445419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-878914472051909043.post-34672927715291815972009-07-31T10:59:50.495-07:002009-07-31T10:59:50.495-07:00Sorry, I don't mean to stalk. But I also want...Sorry, I don't mean to stalk. But I also wanted to say that I recently used the phrase "Christian superstition" to my husband. We know exactly what you mean. That should be a blog post in and of itself.<br /><br />I also love the fact that you put a picture of your son and his lovely wife up. That makes this story that much more personal and real. We're not talking about some random people that are going through tough times out there in the world, and that "probably deserve it." I will definitely be praying for them as well.Angelahttp://www.angelabuckland.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-878914472051909043.post-55017322925320354462009-07-31T10:26:55.594-07:002009-07-31T10:26:55.594-07:00I so completely agree. Leaving the, "God mus...I so completely agree. Leaving the, "God must have done this to me, because..." and just realizing I'm in a fallen world where "the rain falls on the just and the unjust," and bad things happen sometimes simply because bad things sometimes happen, has been a HUGE RELIEF. In this strange way, it has given me power over my life again, power to choose, power to think, power to consider, and the sure and certain knowledge of knowing that God is there, in all of it. <br /><br />A person very close to me suggested that I must not be supposed to leave my abusive marriage because God hadn't opened any doors to do so. As if, um, there are any easy "doors" open for a woman in my situation... It is that kind of thinking that I am so tired of. I was always waiting...hoping God would do something...never realizing that He lived in me and could act through my own hands and feet and mouth.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-878914472051909043.post-18202935135616117032009-07-31T07:58:50.510-07:002009-07-31T07:58:50.510-07:00This is the kind of application your book allows u...This is the kind of application your book allows us to process and it is true and allows our faith to be true. I will also pray for your kids that they will find a job that fits them or bridged them to the next one.Don Hendrickshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13807417739407553416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-878914472051909043.post-2057233034023287422009-07-31T07:09:14.722-07:002009-07-31T07:09:14.722-07:00I absolutely loved this. I've been viewing li...I absolutely loved this. I've been viewing life through this lens lately, and I have to wholeheartedly agree that it feels so much more freeing and simple. No blaming. No pointing fingers. Just taking life one day at a time. I think it takes a lot of courage to stand up and say what you're saying here. "You mean, we're not actually in CONTROL of everything?!?!?!?!" Exactly! It's a wonderful, freeing relinquishing of power and control, and we simply get to be human beings, and do this crazy life together.Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17995697503647216357noreply@blogger.com